“It is a happy talent to know how to play.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Last May, as I sat on my comfortable lounge chair recovering from surgery, I happened to hear a sound that was about the only thing that would get me up and out of that chair. You see the surgery was for an abdominal hernia repair, and it was hard for me to get up, stand up or walk.
But when I heard the trilling and whistles, I knew what it meant. The Cedar Waxwings (Bombycilla cedrorum) had come back to my garden. When I looked out to the tall trees in the center of the garden, there they were. About 20-30 of them….they looked so excited to be here. They had returned from their southern winter homes and were back to take up residence and find a prime nesting site.
It seemed they were hanging in my trees because they were all vying for time in the pond. If you have never seen an “earful” or “museum” of Waxwings, then you have missed a treat. Besides all the whistling going on, they are always in motion. Moving, tussling, hopping, pushing and doing acrobatic moves as they catch insects on the fly. And they are incredibly social birds too.
Whenever I see this “earful” of Waxwings, I think back to my childhood days when my siblings and I, along with the neighbor kids, would get together and play. We would play these large games sometimes make-believe, sometimes with rules like Simon Says and sometimes just exploring down by the creek or digging in mounds of dirt for unusual finds like arrowheads. And when we were together, you could hear us a mile away with our high-pitched squeals of delight.
I have written about the virtues of play before. It is one of the joys in life we sometimes forget to practice when we begin to grow older. And we sometimes think play is only for children, which couldn’t be further from the truth. One of the best ways I know how to play is to cultivate a creative pursuit. Dancing, singing, drawing, gardening, photography, writing….you name it. If it is part of being creative, then it is part of the joy of play.
And you don’t even have to be good at it or worry if you are. I never cared if my pictures looked great or if I used the right green to color in leaves. I just had fun coloring or drawing. Now I tend to care a bit too much, but I am releasing the arbitrary bonds I have place on my creative self. And in that freedom, I have found my playful side again.
So when I see fawns frolicking or birds riding the thermals, I am reminded to play. And it is especially easy to think of play when you I see Cedar Waxwings each spring. Don’t they have the most beautiful coloring. I love the browns and yellows so subtle. And the little red tips on the ends of their wings. But best of all, I love their masked faces. Like a bunch of bandits riding into town to whoop and holler. I want to get on my pretend horse, don my Lone Ranger mask and ride those bandits out of town, the hero of my yard again!
The Waxwings also remind me of those times, during recess, when there would be so many children screaming, yelling and playing. A group of us would sneak off to the old apple trees, and gorge ourselves on dimpled, imperfect apples….much like these fruit loving birds. Watch out because they will eat every serviceberry, winterberry, strawberry, mulberry, crabapple, and raspberry in sight… as well as the berries of juniper, dogwood and honeysuckle.
Cedar Waxwings are native to North and Central America, where they nest in open wooded areas (right behind my meadow) and winter in the southern half of the United States, Central America and the tip of northwest South America. They are supposed to live year-round here in New York, but I have not seen them here in winter. And they are supposed to breed mainly in southern Canada, but we have mating pairs here in central New York each summer. Wherever there is running water (my pond with waterfall) and berries along with lots of insects…that’s where you will find them. It seems my wildlife garden has become a great spot for the Waxwings to visit and dine.
Here are some interesting facts about Cedar Waxwings:
- Males and females look alike.
- Cedar Waxwings have been known to eat fruit that is overripe and has begun to ferment, thereby becoming intoxicated.
- When there is a supply of berries that only one bird can reach, the Waxwings will line up along the twig and pass berries with their beaks down the line so that each bird can eat.
- Cedar Waxwings are said to be named because of its fondness for the small cones of the eastern red cedar…..AND
- Because the name “waxwing” comes from the waxy red tips of its wings that are said to possibly attract mates.
- The oldest known Cedar Waxwing was 8 years, 2 months old. It is nice to know that the same birds may return to my garden each year.
With this wildlife story, I am joining in the meme Wildlife Wednesday hosted by Tina@My Gardener Says that happens the first Wednesday of every month, and with Saturday’s Critters hosted by Eileen@Viewing nature with Eileen that happens every Saturday.
I leave you with another thought about play. Feel free to download this photo and share.
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